When the Monster Slimed Her Way In.... (continued)

Actual Photograph of an unknown Philly Judge damaging fathers and children

Continued...

It wasn't long after that that my son began to turn against me (not because he wanted to, but because he was trained to). Eight months I had to wait for custody court. Eight long months. Want to know about stress? Get involved with custody. I'm surprised to don't look older than what I am. So eight months my ex-wife and I argued and verbally fought. The keep-away-the-kids game was at full throttle. I'd see the kids but then they were given the option of "you don't have to if you don't want to" when it came to visiting me. Why would they do that? Well outside of being the bottom dwellers of society, they knew I would never make them do something they didn't want to do. Keep in mind that my wife and I had already been married for roughly three years at this point. By now he was already brainwashed into hating her guts. Why? We can't think of a reason other than that she was always there for them when they weren't. Simple really. Sadly it wasn't always like that. Before these monsters sunk their claws into his young, impressionable brain he and my wife got along really well.

During this time... I began speaking more and more with her mother who was also arguing with her daughter. Visitation was strictly between myself and ex mother-in-law. Why? Well... their mother began her Houdini act. She'd disappear here and there leaving these things more up to her mother then to me so there really wasn't any other way. Months went by until finally custody court was literally one month away. Four weeks. My ex mother-in-law approached me and said; "She (meaning her daughter) owes me money and I'll tell you one thing, I'm gonna get my money. I don't care how but I'm gonna get it". I knew where she was going. She went on; "This morning, I went downtown and filed for custody against her. I told them this has nothing to do with you and that I don't want any problems to come your my..." I stopped listening to her vomit coming out of her gaping shit hole. I knew immediately what she did. She was playing me too! I never learn.

You can't file for custody against just one parent when you're an outside party. You have to sue both. That was the last time I ever willingly spoke to that woman. To make the matter worse? I just waited eight months. Court gave her FOUR WEEKS for the same date, time, room and judge. The looming affect of having a penis was sinking in. She had to wait four weeks. Let that sink in. I had to wait 8 fucking months to try and get custody of my children from an abusive and battered home yet this fucker steps in, with money on the mind, and they give her not only the same thing, but only 4 fucking weeks. So rather than Me vs. ex-wife... it was now going to be Me vs. ex-wife vs. ex-mother-in-law. Once the monster slimed her way in my relationship with my son pretty much flat-lined.... along with his future. I began seeing less of him and he rarely spoke to me. By the way... it was also during this time that his schooling would be used against me. How? Well... when he'd get straight Fs I'd punish him. So he refused to come over my house. You see... living with his grandmother there are no consequences. He had five Fs on that last report card and took away his Xbox 360. Remember that key detail.... because come May, the judge would use that against me.

However... a strange thing happened. My daughter started to drift toward my wife and I. In any case, it wouldn't matter. When you have an incompetent judge, who just happened to be a board member for 8 years for the National Organisation for Women... it doesn't make a fucking difference.