Brainwash Likes the Nazis

The Stepford Wives Children

My son sent me a text today using his grandmother's cell phone (obviously it was expected of me to rip him a new ass or something and she could save it, use it against me in court* etc. because  most Philly judges are dumb and believe anything mothers say). He wanted to know if I could give him spending money because his mother is taking him and his friend to Wildwood, NJ for a day or two. I replied; "Ask your mom. Or grandmother". I didn't get a reply nor do I expect one. 

My initial reaction for him asking me for money is usually on the harsh side. So I bit my texting tongue and sent that short and simple reply. Now I know for certain he's sent me some really nasty shit via text message. However... there are other times where I believe it is either his grandmother or mother doing it. Reasons are obvious. So my first reaction, I think to myself; "The fucking balls on this kid". Now here's a kid who goes beyond measures to bad mouth me and pull my name through the mud whenever he gets a chance. He didn't always feel that way. No. That didn't happen until grandma got involved and made the situation not only worse but beyond repair. His mother is to blame as well. Perhaps I could blame myself for getting involved with that family at all but, as always, hindsight is 20/20. 

Forget the fact that grandma is has more money than me (hey, she has thousands of dollars of mine, thanks to the court... oh yeah, plus she hit the lottery a couple years back. Yeah. $100,000 more than me), Once I rejected him for spending money the usual more than likely occurred in either of the following ways: 

1. Grandma or momma said: You see? He gives everything to your sister but nothing to you. Always been that way. 
2. Grandma or momma said: Don't expect to get nothing from him.
3. Grandma or momma said: He's too busy with little Tyler and little Dylan to be bothered by you.
4. He said: That's why he's a deadbeat and never did nothing for me. <--- This is a definite. 

Why is four a definite? Well because that's what he's heard for the past three years and that's what he's been brainwashed to believe. The first three are easy to predict being said mainly because they've been said before. How do I know? My daughter had heard it said. Not to mention I've heard the first one with my own ears, over the phone. This is how those people are. Children are just pawns for mothers (not all of them, just ones like these) to gain what they want (money) and they'll use them as much as they can, regardless of how badly it affects their lives. Always remember that fathers. 

*I would hope that they read this blog and bring it to court in February. It'll save me paper and ink.